Presently It is so deep in the psyche and genes of the People that they instinctively rely & consider that readymade software Kundali matching or Ashtakoot (36 guna) Matching method is the only finest Tool for the Marriage Alliance and nothing else. Resultantly if arrived points are above 18 out of the total 36, they prefer to proceed with the marriage without giving any serious thought. Thereby a general belief & Myth prevails that higher the points gained, more assured the happy married life would be.
Today’s so called Pandits also match the birth charts of both Boy & Girl as per this Short-cut, Fast ready-made method without going into details of exceptions to its various rules. However, it is observed that despite gaining highest marks, this ashtkoot matching does not always result in a happy married life.
Second myth is that people only ask for Mangal Dosha existence in the horoscopes to be matched, with the belief that if it is not present in both, the one with the Mangal Dosha will/may become a widow or widower, which is incorrect.
In order to break this prevalent myth and properly understand the Astrological matching concepts, one should understand how Gun Matching as per ashtakoot method / Gun Milan is prepared or arrived and what are its limitations.
Ashtakoot or Guna matching (36 guna in particular) is a method chiefly, purely & solely based on matching the birth Moon Janma Nakshatra (Moon Star/Asterism) of the Boy & with that of the Girl, on Eight (8) specified criteria. Therefore, this entire gamut is based on the Janm Moon Nakshatra of boy & girl, and its related 8 criteria or koots, which carries equal marks/points according to its serial number as under:
As per above chronology, the Guna Value / weightage of each koot (total 8 koots) is equal to the numeric number given to each criterion i.e. 1 to 8, total of which comes to 36 points or gunas. Over a period, a belief is developed that maximum 36 points could be achieved, which guarantees a happy, trouble free, blissful long married life. Accordingly, a suitable marriage is treated from minimum 18 marks onwards, and lesser than that, not proper for good marriage.
This system of Ashtkoot matching / Guna Milan was actually devised in the very ancient days, when most Indians were never in a position to get cast their natal Ascendant horoscope from knowledgeable brahmins, for want of finances to pay them. Thus, the learned Sages and scholars of that time devised this Ashtakoot system which was easy for a common pandit or brahmin, who keeps a close look at the current Transit of Planets & Nakshatras according to Panchang. The common people would just consult them and get to know the Nakshatra & Moon sign, their child is born in, and thereby name it, based on the letters assigned to each pad of nakshatra sign of the zodiac. So that whenever in future these general class people referred to a pandit / brahmin for Kundali matching, they could easily identify the Nakshatra and Moon sign of both boy & girl and instantly calculate the Ashtakoot/Guna matching and suggest about the marriage. However, in those ancient days, the privileged would be able to have their ascendant horoscopes cast and had the benefit of getting the horoscopes matched properly, based on the ashtakoot and the Ascendant horoscope.
As most Indians since ages, had no recourse to the Ascendant horoscope, they started believing that Ashtakoot or guna matching is the only tool to match the horoscopes and so such heavy reliance & dependability built on it from time immoral.
A few Shortcomings of Ashtkoot (36 Gun) Matching in major points are:
Further the Ashtkoot Matching (36 points) does not cover the following aspects:
Thus Ascendant based horoscope matching is more important since it calculates, analyses & give a true picture of the conjugal life, harmony, Nature, Tastes, Progeny, Personality, longevity, Mangal dosha, Attractions, wealth & other traits based on all 9 Planets and all 12 (twelve) signs and their Lords, whereas Ashtakoot matching is merely based on single Planet, the “Moon” only.